ABSTINENCE Tough Questions Good Answers

Why Should I Be Abstinent

Sexual abstinence means choosing not to have sex. The reasons people choose abstinence are very personal. Some of those reasons include: — Wanting to protect yourself from HIV/AIDS, or another sexually transmitted disease or infection (STD or STI). — Wanting to wait for marriage. — Not wanting to risk an unplanned pregnancy.

Is It Normal Not To Have Sex

Yes. It’s normal to have sexual feelings. It’s also normal to wait to act on those feelings. In fact, studies show that more than half of all teens have not had sex by the time they are seventeen.

I’ve Had Sex Before. Can I Be Abstinent Now

Absolutely. Many young people realize that they are not ready for sex after they have done it for the first time. No matter how many times you’ve had sex before, you can decide to be abstinent now.

What If I’m In Love

Being in love is a wonderful feeling. But there are many good reasons to stay abstinent, even when you are in love. Abstinence is still a good way to prevent an unplanned pregnancy and protect yourself from STDs. It is important to respect your decision to abstain, even when you are in love.

What If MY Partner Really Wants To Do It

You can still choose abstinence. Explain to your partner that you want to wait. Try to show you care by writing love notes or planning special time together.

What If My Partner Really, Really, Really Wants To Do It

It’s still OK to be abstinent. If you feel pressured, tell your partner that pressuring you won’t change your mind. If he or she continues to pressure you, rethink the relationship. Your partner should care more about you and your feelings than about having sex.

Can I (or My Partner) Get Pregnant If I’m Abstinent

Abstinence is the only guaranteed protection from pregnancy. If you abstain from sexual intercourse and other activities where semen can enter the vagina, you will not become pregnant. (It only takes one tiny drop of semen to become pregnant.)

Can I Get An STD If I’m Abstinent

Abstinence will give you protection from STDs that are passed through sexual intercourse. But some STDs - like herpes - can also be passed through kissing and intimate touching. And, some STDs - like HIV and hepatitis - can be passed through sharing needles. To fully protect yourself, learn about STDs, Get to know how each is transmitted and what you need to do to avoid infection.

We’ve Been Making Out. Am I Still Abstinent

Only you can figure out exactly what limits are. Decide ahead of time and be firm. Remember, if you are making out, you may have a harder time sticking to your limits.

Can I Have Sexual Feelings And Still Be Abstinent

You can have sexual feelings and choose not to act on them. To keep your limits, be clear with yourself and your boyfriend or girlfriend. Avoid hanging out alone (this can make it harder to stick to your limits.) Spend time with friends or family instead.

Doesn’t Abstinence Mean Just Saying No

Sexual abstinence does mean saying yes to other things - like yourself, your health and your future.

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